Ok here is the thing !
Today I saw a relatives sister who is only 13 years old ! I was shocked when I knew that her wedding will be this Tuesday! I even told my relative 'this is bad, she is so young "
At first I said "omg" !! this is so bad and not fair !
But when I met her, these feelings faded away and I even didn't see anything wrong with her marrying at the age of 13! you might ask me why !
well she seems as old as me (looks, makeup , style )! her body language ! her actions and interactions with her husband to be, was pretty mature ! she may know things that I may not know even in my current age !
Am I against early marriage ! it depends ! depending on the mentality of the girl !
If you asked me the same question before I met this girl , I would definitely say : I am totally against early marriage ! but this girl changed my point of view a little bit on the topic !
I still think that in general cases early marriage is not a cool thing and in most cases it destroys the girl ! however sometimes a 13 years old girl can be a 23 years old if you look at the way she thinks and her maturity level ! when I was 13 I was trying to memorize anime opening and wanted to play with toys and barbies ;p ! so ...
Until next post ...stay safe