Taboos and limits !

Salam...

I will start this post with a question. 

Why is it considered wrong to think about the unthinkable ? 

Let me be more specific ! I am talking about religions ! 

Lets face it , there is a stage in every believer's life where he/she starts doubting things and start wanting to see physical proofs on why I wanna be Muslim or christian or whatever ! then the investigation stage starts with this single thought " does god really exists?" and if its true " do we have to have a religion for worshiping ?"

All these questions appear in our lives in a way or another. But then we reason by remembering the fact that it is a believe after all. Meaning I am against Muslims who try to seek god's name "alla" in a piece of fruit or seeking prayer in a bowing tree ! 

I think it is just silly !

So is this contradicting.... nope ! this is how our mind works ! religion should be filled with reason and common sense. However , you will come across things that should be taken as it is ! why ? because god said so. why ? because we are believers, why ? because we want to enter heaven. why ? because this is a reason for our live.

I believe that life is so missed up and filled with injustice. 

There will be punishment for those who do wrong

until then ,I will keep my mind on ! it is nice to have a brain ! after all , this is what makes us special.

Another year !

Happy new year !

It is amazing how days are passing real fast. I bit each of us have heard this sentence or even said it before...

Why do we keep feeling like that ! is time passing faster than it used to be or is it just that our achievements in life is getting shorter! I only wonder ...

Maybe when we look for something say a trip or an event , we feel that time is passing real slow ...but when that certain thing finishes ...we feel that it is passing fast ...

Thinking of the years that had passed I achieved a lot el hamdullella !  Graduated from university , worked , had my masters and find the person who I can call my other half ... but recently I feel like I am standing still ! 

Then it hit me! no matter how much I achieved in life or thought that I have , it is never enough ! we should always be grateful for the things we have done or have ,but we should never use it as an excuse for our laziness ... aspiring for more in life whether its education , knowledge or even business is something that should go in parallel with our feeling of gratitude... when you think its enough , you are doomed !>_<

I realized this as I was hearing a religious lecture on the radio this morning. It was about knowledge and how acquiring it never stop ... we will never reach a point in our life where we know everything...

May Allah bless those who develop themselves at all levels ... personal , educational , religion ...etc...

My respect grows for the seekers of knowledge ... 

for the people who try to put excuses for not obtaining knowledge .... there is no excuse ! 

the only obstacle in getting knowledge starts from our-self ! 

You are what you think ! very true ...

bottom line ! what I really wanna change in the new year is my energy level !

I wanna feel energetic in anything I do ! 

You name it ! starting from making a simple recipe to making an invention ... 

I think that the great enemy of knowledge is laziness and giving up to the routine ! 

Keep on dreaming everyone ... what is life without ambition , without adventures ... without ideas ! 

Happy new year everyone :) 

To do list :

1- Boast of energy level 

2- Acquire Knowledge 

Frozen ...

Frozen is the name of a 3D animation that I watched today!

If I was asked what the movie is all about ...I would simply say ...It is about that special bond that link 2 sisters together. Most people refer to true love as prince charming or the one. however , this movie lighten the magic behind sisters love... no matter what the circumstances are... sisters have a bond that is stronger than anything.

After all ,What is the solution to a frozen heart but true love...

Also , this movie showed that having absolute freedom to be your self , could harm others not intentionally. I think it delivers a message that we should consider others and being our selves at the same time in a balanced way.
After all , our largest problem in the world rises from selfishness ... the disaster begins there...

The movie is filled with messages and wisdomness presented in the cutest way ever.. oh and it has the sweetest songs ever.

It is a musical movie that fill your heart with joy and warm despite the fact that it is snowing all the time ... thanks to the queen ;p

A great movie ... recommended highly ...take your sister with you ...
Until next post ...Merry Christmas and a happy new year :)

نصيبك حيصيبك !

النصيب ! كم هي المرات التي تُنطق هذه الكلمة و تتردد على أفواه البشر ! سواء في عمل أو زواج أو حتي في لقمة من رغيف خبز جافر ! اصبحت كلمة شائعة لكن هل نعي حقاً حجم و عمق هذا المصطلح...
قبل أن اقوم بالكتابة ذهبت الى الشيخ الذي لا غنى عنه ... جوجل... لأعرف معنى هذه الكلمة...

النَّصِيبُ : الحظُّ من كلّ شيء
 المعجم الوسيط المعجم:

نصيب : حصة من الشيء
المعجم: الرائد

"هَذَا نَصِيبِي مِنَ الْحَيَاةِ " : هَذَا حَظِّي
المعجم: الغني

لنقل ان النصيب هي الحصة من الشيء لانني اعتقد ان الانسان هو الذي يصنع حظه مع توفيق رب العالمين. مع ذلك يبقى هنالك نقص ...  قد اعمل جاهدا من اجل شيء ما دون جدوى أو حتى حصتي المحفوظة في طعام وضعته امي قد يصبح مضغة في معدة اخي (صحة و هنا) ! برايي المصطلح اعمق من مجرد حظ او محظ حصة !

هو الشيء الذي اذا جاهدتك الحياه ان لا يكون لك ...فيصير من غرابة الامور بين يديك
هو الشيء الذي اذا احبه الجميع لك و جاهدت الحياه ليصير لك ... فاصبح بيد غيرك قبل ان تغمض عينيك

الشيء قد يكون اي شيء ... اي شيء ... عمل , زواج , سفرة .... سمي ما تريد
النصيب هو التخطيط الالهي لحياتك.

قصتي مع النصيب هي مثل الدراما الكورية التي يستهزأ بها المعظم ! في الحقيقة نحن من نصنع الافلام  ...
شخص حكيم قال لي " أن البحث يبدأ بقصة" ... كذلك هي الافلام و الدراما التي ما هي الا مجرد انعكاسات للحياه !
النصيب هو البطل الروائي لكل ما يسطع على شاشات التلفزة و ما يحدث في حياتنا على كل الاصعدة.

و يبقى هذا تعريفي الخاص ...

Balance !

Recently , I started to think that most people have a problem in creating a balance in their own life .

This problem leads to having extremes... either workaholic people who act like robots at the work place and neglect their social circles or social people who focus on gossip and neglect their practical side. I am finding a hard time finding balanced people who can have both! 

Balance is a keyword for having all sides in ones life satisfied .... yet reaching it is like a fantasy ! I think its the key to happiness for all ! I only wonder ....

حرب الباصات

استقلاليتي التي تثمل في عدم رغبتي ان يوصلني أحد الى وجهتي و بُعد مسافة الوجهه هم الاسباب التي جعلتني أُقدم على الاختيار الصعب. الاختيار الذي يفضل معظم الاردنيون الذين لا يمتلكون سيارات الوقوع فيه, ألا و هو ما يسمى الكوستر او الباص الصغير

انا لم اركب الكوستر منذ فترة طويلة فقلت لنفسي لم لا ! سوف تكون تجربة غير

بدأ مشواري بالذهاب الى الباص فوجدت نفسي في حرب بين الكونترولية - الاشخاص الذين يجمعون الاجرة - الذين كانو يتنافسون على اجرتي !" اركبي كوستري فالباص يقبل على الاقلاع" , جملة يصيحها جميع الكونترولية حتى لو كان الباص فارغ

طبعا لا يوجد مفهوم او حتى فكرة الدور بين هذه الباصات ! هي منافسة بينهم! الباص الذي يمتلىء هو الباص الذي سوف يفوز! مبدأ المثل العامي "اللي بسبق بنبق"! عدا على الوقت الضائع الذي تقضيه في الباص حتى يمتلىء, فمبدأ التحرك في وقت معين حتى لا يتأخر الركاب عن الوجهه هو مفهوم فضائي لا يمكن ان يُفهم فكيف له ان يُطبق

اعتقدت ان الحرب مقتصرة على الباصات ممثلة بالكونترولية , الا انني سرعان ما وجدت ان اصرار الكونترولية و محاولة جرهم للركاب يولد شرارة بينهم و بين الركاب. معركة تولدت بين راكب و كونترول ادت لاعاقة المرور مما زاد من فترة انتظاري في الباص

يعني باختصار ما الذي ينقصنا ليكون لدينا نظام ! اهتمام بالوقت ! و التزام بالدور

لا شيء ! يلزمنا ان نلغي في انفسنا جملة نرددها دوما " يعني انا شو ممكن أعمل , انا فرد في هادا المجتمع"

الله يهدي امتنا ! فانا سئمت من سماع "يا أمة ضحكت من جهلها الامم

Early Marriage !

Ok here is the thing !

Today I saw a relatives sister who is only 13 years old ! I was shocked when I knew that her wedding will be this Tuesday! I even told my relative 'this is bad, she is so young "

At first I said "omg" !! this is so bad and not fair !

But when I met her, these feelings faded away and I even didn't see anything wrong with her marrying at the age of 13! you might ask me why !

well she seems as old as me (looks, makeup , style )! her body language ! her actions and interactions with her husband to be, was pretty mature ! she may know things that I may not know even in my current age !

Am I against early marriage ! it depends ! depending on the mentality of the girl !

If you asked me the same question before I met this girl , I would definitely say : I am totally against early marriage ! but this girl changed my point of view a little bit on the topic !

I still think that in general cases early marriage is not a cool thing and in most cases it destroys the girl ! however sometimes a 13 years old girl can be a 23 years old if you look at the way she thinks and her maturity level ! when I was 13 I was trying to memorize anime opening and wanted to play with toys and barbies ;p ! so ...

Until next post ...stay safe